WHEN VISITING A LOVED ONE AT A NURSING HOME

1. Be mindful when you visit the facility. Patterns are easily tracked. Try to alternate times/days of visits. Get to know support staff. They are usually overworked and underpaid. Gestures of appreciation will usually be reciprocal. Those who over/under whelmed (and why): __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________.
2. Any concerns upon entering the facility (appearance, odors, welcoming): _____________________________________________________________________.
3. Hallways and common areas (clean, staffed, activities): ________________________________________________________________________________________.
4. Conversations with staff/other residents (warm, friendly, interested in their environment): ____________________________________________________.
5. The resident (their appearance, hygiene, demeanor): __________________________________________________________________________________________.
6. Their room (bedding, closet, bathroom): _______________________________________________________________________________________________________.
7. Other visitors (share your impressions and ask for theirs): ______________________________________________________________________________________.
8. Social activities (are their various programs of interest for the resident): _______________________________________________________________________.
9. Meals and snacks (ask and taste, if possible): ___________________________________________________________________________________________________.
10. Administration (where your concerns addressed and resolved): ________________________________________________________________________________.